My name is Simon and I am a genuine, mature, straight, English, professional male dominant disciplinarian, spanking practitioner and professional administrator of corporal punishment aged in my 50's who administers a wide range of corporal punishment spanking discipline services fulfilling spanking needs for discerning ladies, adult women and my female clients.
I am mature male disciplinarian aged in my 50's
You will always address me as Sir during the administration of your spanking discipline and when I administer corporal punishment.
You may address me with my real name Simon whenever we speak on the phone or via text and email communication.
Simon is actually my real name and I choose not to hide behind a pseudonym or made-up name / title.
I suppose that I could have gone with Sir Simon, Strict Simon or even Master Simon when promoting my professional spanking services, but there you go and I just prefer to be straight Simon or straight-forward Simon.
I am a mature, English, straight, professional, male dominant disciplinarian, master, mentor, spanking therapist, spanking life coach, educator, spanking practitioner and authority figure who administers authentic corporal punishment spanking discipline, domestic discipline, motivational spanking, spanking for accountability, therapeutic spanking, spanking therapy, mild BDSM and erotic sensual spanking services fulfilling spanking needs, desires and fantasies for ladies and my female clientele.
Although I use the terms "authority figure" "dominant disciplinarian" "masterful" and "strict master" and other similar descriptive terms with reference to my own professional spanking services for women, I am basically a regular, normal, charming guy and a mature respectable charismatic man, who is in fact just like you with a pleasing, caring nature who has a fascination, interest and passion for traditional corporal punishment spanking discipline combined with the same intrigue in many different aspects of the administration of corporal punishment in various forms and with the same similar kink / fetish as yourself for many different aspects of spanking discipline or erotic sensual kinky sexy spankings / floggings with some BDSM discipline and light restraint with power-play and role-play.
There is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of with wanting to indulge in fulfilling your innermost, secret spanking kin and spanking fantasy fetish and there is no embarrassment in wanting to escape to indulge your playful nature with some play-time with being spanked and disciplined if your interest is piqued with the authentic administration of corporal punishment spanking discipline as your favourite pastime.
I further assure you that you are not alone in wanting to act on, act out or to play out your innermost interest, intrigue, thoughts, cravings, longings, kink, fetish and desires to fulfil your secret spanking needs by booking the select services of a professional male dominant disciplinarian who is more than happy, capable and able to help your fulful your interest in various different aspects of corporal punishment and to indulge your spanking desires to help you with your need and desire to be spanked in a safe, secure domestic setting with some realistic psychodrama and drama-therapy.
My main interest and passion is in traditional, authentic administrations of corporal punishment spanking discipline, domestic spanking discipline and OTK spankings or erotic spanking sessions with some impact play, kink / kinky fun and mild BDSM, so I am NOT interested in any forms or any aspect of hardcore BDSM, S/M bondage nor am I a sadist nterested in any forms of sadism, pain, humiliation, verbal humiliation, strange unusual kinks or fetish.
Please note that I do NOT condone spanking children or minors and believe spanking play, spanking role-play and administrations of corporal punishment should only happen between consenting adults.
I provide a wide range of spanking services tailored to suit your own individual spanking needs.
If you are a woman who is seeking a charming, charismatic, confident, highly intelligent, strict, firm but fair, dominant, mature, masculine, masterful man to give you a good, sound spanking and to administer corporal punishment with warmth, patience, understanding and empathy to fulfil your spanking needs, cravings and desires, then you need look no further as you have now found the right person to discipline and an appropriate, suitable professional male disciplinarian to spank you.
I understand that many women need, crave and desire to have corporal punishment in their lives and to feel that their spanking needs are being met by a strict, dominant, yet compassionate, undertanding, patient, experienced, mature male disciplinarian.
I administer professional corporal punishment spanking discipline services for women with a therapeutic approach and I give spankings for ladies with a great deal of empathy, compassion, warmth and understanding.
You are a lady with great expectations and I shall help you fulfil your spanking needs as your chosen guide and mentor.
Although I make use of the word / term "master" and I use the phrase "strict dominant master", I usually refer to myself as a disciplinarian and perhaps prefer the term "male dominant disciplinarian" with referenece to my own spanking servcies for women.
Male disciplinarian, spanking therapist and spanking life coach / mentor is also applicable for ladies seeking a more therapeutic and holistc approach to spanking discipline.
The word or descriptive term master would be more applicable if a lady is booking me to administer erotic sensual spankings.
I reitierate that you will always address me as Sir during the administration of your spanking discipline and when I administer corporal punishment, however you may address me with my real name Simon whenever we speak on the phone or via text and email communication.
I once again reiterate that Simon is actually my real name and I choose not to hide behind a pseudonym or made-up name / title as a further assurance.
If you are now curious, intrigued and tempted to satisfy your curiosity and to explore your own personal interest in corporal punishment spanking discipline and to find out more about my professional spanking services for women, then let me be your guide / mentor to tempt you further to enable you now fulfil your spanking fantasy needs, cravings and desires to help you turn your innermost secret longing and dreams into reality.
If you genuinely feel that you are in need of corporal punishment and regular spankings have been missing from your life thus far, then look no further and you can have the courage and confidence to read more and to perhaps even make contact with me with no obligation to make an appointment booking.
You can now feel confident enough to explore your own interest in spanking in more depth with a suitable male disciplinarian who can be your professional guide and mentor taking you on a new journey of exploration and discovery.
You may have thought about spanking from a very early age and for as long as you can remember, but without realising why these thoughts have been with you for all this time and this is where I can help you to now finally fulfil and understand your need to be spanked whether it be a more deep-rooted, personal, psychological need to be spanked, disciplined and punished to receive corporal punishment for your own personal reasons or you simply wish to be spanked to enjoy the kinky sexual eroticism of pain and pleasure coupled with the sexy aspect of erotic sensual spanking to help satisfy your craving and spanking desire as a form of kink, domination and fun fantasy fetish fulfillment.
You may have some prior experience and you know exactly why you enjoy being spanked, why you need to be spanked or you know exactly why you like regular spanking sessions in your life.
There are SO many different aspects, dynamics and elements attached to spanking and coupled with my own interests and passion for corporal punishment, I can help to discover, enjoy and to explore the type or style of spanking discipline that intrigues and interests you the most in more depth or if you are a complete novice with no prior experience, then I can be your guide and mentor.
So many people and professional disciplinarians including myself used to compartmentalise spanking into definitive segments, however over the years we have all realised that there can be so many different thoughts, styles and aspects of spanking discipline.
As my own personal and professional experience increased and grew over the years, I experimented more and more in my own personal life as well as my professional life when contacted by women seeking my professional spanking services via my spanking website who would bring new suggestions, dynamics and ideas to the equation which I would take on board and then suggest within my website with the services that I would then offer and provide.
Professional Mature Male Dominant Disciplinarian, Strict Spanking Master, Kink- Aware Spanking Therapist Life Coach Mentor, Spanking Practitioner & Assertive Authority Figure for Adult Women
Honesty is the best policy in life and I am a mature male dominant disciplinarian aged in my 50's, however I am often told that I look younger, but that of course is in the eye of the beholder and after all, age and time is an abstract concept.
I just wanted to clarify my actual age and to be honest from the outset to avoid any possible confusion or misunderstanding, so I shall leave it up to you to consider if my current age is appropriate / suitable for your own personal preferences.
I have been providing professional spanking services for women and my regular female clients since 2004 until the present day and I am always very professional in my attentive approach to spanking with a vast wealth of experience.
I never use any forms of social media or online forums including Facebook, Instagram and Twitter either using my real name or even a pseudonym, so the only platform that you will find my details online is within my own varying vocational websites.
I am totally "non-scene" so to speak and I do NOT attend organised spanking parties, spanking clubs or take part in any other similar spanking scenarios.
I am considered to be articulate, caring, charming, charismatic, compassionate, confident yet very modest even with an assured air of confidence, conscientious, creative, cultured, eloquent, highly intelligent, friendly, reliable, genuine, generous, giving and totally approachable with a positive outlook on life, terrific sense of fun and humour, joie de vivre and a pleasing personality with sparkling effervescence.
I am always very sensitive and attentive to your own spanking needs paying attention to detail with sympathy and understanding.
I am a very self-motivated individual with a professional attitude and considered to have a pleasing, positive, personality with effervescent energy and an outgoing, assured air of confidence, yet there is also a "yin and yang" dichotomy with me, as I am also very down-to-earth, chilled out, introspective, contemplative in thought and relaxed in nature.
I am 5' 11" tall in height with a 32* waist and I have blue / green eyes.
I am considered to be ruggedly handsome, very articulate, caring, charming, charismatic, confident, conscientious, considerate, eloquent, highly intelligent, imaginative with an instinctively assertive, naturally dominant nature.
I do not drink, smoke or take any drugs preferring to maintain and promote a healthy lifestyle as I genuinely enjoy keeping fit and healthy.
I truly believe in the maxim / saying that a healthy body leads to a healthy mind.
Please be assured that I am NOT interested in any forms or any aspect of hardcore BDSM, S/M bondage nor am I a sadist or similar interested in any forms of sadism, pain, humiliation, verbal humiliation, strange, unusual kinks or fetish.
I am a genuine guy and normal man with an assertive, dominant nature who just has an interest in corporal punishment spanking discipline and administering spanking services for women in need of strict discipline.
You can read more about my spanking services for women and types of spanking discipline that I offer herewith on the Home Page and within the respective links within the header section.
I offer and provide a very discreet, confidential, safe, secure, professional spanking service for women, my existing established female clientele and discerning ladies seeking corporal punishment spanking discipline.
You may choose to view me as your dominant disciplinarian, authority figure, strict master, headmaster, spanking mentor, spanking life coach, spanking therapist or a strong, confident, masculine man administering your corporal punishment spanking discipline.
I am always friendly, totally approachable, very understanding with patience and sympathetic to your all spanking needs.
I will guide you through your corporal punishment spanking discipline spanking sessions with patience, understanding and empathy with assurances of a duty of care, discretion, confidentiality, safety and security always respecting and observing your personal boundaries and limits in safe, secure space.
I always like to keep my own imaginative, innovative ideas and spanking concepts totally original with my own vast wealth of experience in administering corporal punishment and spanking discipline exclusively for women.
My most popular request & the most popular spanking fantasy for the many adult women & ladies who book my own professional spanking services
I am asked and booked to fufil many spanking requests, needs, cravings and desires for women to suit their own individual, personal preferences or sometimes the ladies just let me take dominant control to guide them through their spanking session once we have discussed the boundaries and their interest in discipline, but my most popular request is for the lady to be fully dressed to begin with wearing a dress / skirt and for her to bend over my lap / knee to be spanked over the seat of her dress / skirt.
I then hold her firmly in place give her a good, sound, well-deserved spanking across her clothed, covered bottom.
I would then raise the dress / skirt to continue / administer her spanking over her panties before pulling / taking down her panties to give her a prolonged bare bottom spanking until her buttocks are glowing leaving her with a very red, sore, aching bottom.
Ladies seeking this style of spanking discipline always enjoy, relish, adore and love the feeling of heat that builds up in their bare buttocks when they are being spanked and as I administer a prolonged, bare-bottom spanking or when I use a soft leather paddle or slipper in conjunction with my hand to give a good, sound spanking in this scenario.
Some women also enjoy the eroticism of spanking discipline and prefer to lay across the bed for an erotic sensual flogging administered over the bare buttocks.
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"I have been fascinated by all aspects of corporal punishment spanking discipline or just spanking for as long as I can remember. Even the definition was powerful enough to make me squirm. I could not pick up the dictionary without looking it up, including all the attendant words such as beat, beating, beaten, birch, birching, birched, cane, caning, caned, corporal punishment, flog, flogging, flogged, lash, lashing, lashed, paddle, paddling, paddled, punish, punishment, punished, slipper, slippering, slippered, spank, spanking, spanked, strap, strapping, strapped, thrash, thrashing, thrashed, wallop, walloping, walloped, whack, whacking, whacked as well as other phrases such as being instructed to "bend over for discipline / punishment " "I am going to bend you over for a good, sound thrashing" "you are going to be to be disciplined" or "I am going to put you over my lap / knee for a good, sound spanking"
These words, phrases and spanking terms have had a special hold and power over me for as long as I can remember.
Even the word "punishment" or term "discipline" sends a shiver down my spine and arouses something deep within my psyche."
My own original imaginative innovative creative concept
I never, ever visit or view any other websites that may feature another male dominant disciplinarian master or even a female disciplinarian mistress who may also offer spanking services for women.
This statement is totally true, thus keeping my own imagination, conceptual ideas, content, photographs, text, videos and website design honest, original, innovative or true to my own imaginative ideals and concepts.
Many women who make contact with myself having conducted their own research or unknowingly doing market research on my behalf often inform me that others have copied my own innovative ideas or taken some of my own creative concepts passing them off as their own, but as long as the text from my own website is not cut / pasted or my photographs are not being used on another website, then I very flattered / philosophical about this and my attitude is very generous as "imitation is the best form of flattery".
My own website is constantly evolving and continues to be a work in progress.
I realise that my websites may now be looking slightly somewhat dated as I am still using an outdated template that I first used back in 2015 (I had used another web editor template since 2004 before that!) and I am fully aware that there are more modern and up-to-date templates available within my own website editor, however even though I have thought about updating my varying vocational website using more modern designs in recent months, the time that it would take to start over and re-create new websites would take far too long and in any case I am still taking new bookings from new clients all the time, so I have just decided to leave well alone and not to "reinvent the wheel" as it were as I am continuing to do so well with new enquiries and subsequent bookings on a very regular, daily basis and all I want is for women to read about my services / to view my photographic images which they are able to do perfectly well using my current website design.
The fact that I am still using an older template would also give some credence to the fact that I have been offering / provding all my varying vocational services for quite some time until the present day, thus giving you more confidence to book me.
Why I still continue to provide spanking services for women in this current time of sexual respect / political correctness, equality & with safety concerns towards the general well-being of women
I would like to state for the record that I have, always had and always will have total respect for all women.
I would also like to state for the record that I absolutely abhor any physical abuse, domestic violence, cowardly acts of violence / abuse, disrespect, sexual abuse, control, controlling coercive behaviour or emotional abuse directed towards women.
I detest any form of violence towards women and I find abuse towrds women on any level totally abhorrent.
I am simply offering / providing a service that many women desire, want and crave in their lives always administered in a safe, secure setting with total respect for their submission and submissive nature when receiving corporal punishment spanking discipline.
The fact that I offer / provide a professional spanking service for women and the fact that I administer corporal punishment spanking discipline has nothing to do with "getting back at women", any childhood trauma issues, personal psychological issues with women or taking any form of revenge against women.
I even go out of my way within my massage / spanking websites to emphasise / stress how much I respect women always observing a strict moral code of conduct and duty of care towards the safety and security of women during their time spent with me for either my massage and / or my spanking services.
I state and reiterate throughout my websites how much emphasis is placed on observing the safety / security of women with personal boundaries, limits and comfort zones when ladies book my varying vocational services.
I have admittedly struggled with my conscience in recent months as to whether I should continue to offer / provide my professional spanking services and with this in mind, I did make contact with some of my regular clients who then subsequently all assured me that I am doing the "right thing" by continuing to provide my spanking services.
There are many women of all ages who do wish to be dominated by a masculine man and to be spanked, punished or disciplined by a male dominant disciplinarian, thus taking them in hand for strict discipline or erotic sensual spankings.
One of my regular female clients simply stated "I want this" meaning that women do want this type of service as long as all boundaries, limits and personal comfort zones are respected along with safety and security.
All my regular clients as well as women making new contact with me, then booking my spanking services have all given me the encouragement / support to continue providing a professional corporal punishment spanking discipline service.
Ladies who I regard as my regular female clientele aged between circa 25 to 75 and who I have asked for their views / thoughts include two serving magistrates, a GP doctor specialising in women's health, a psychotherapist, two counsellors one of whom mainly deals with female issues, a psychologist, three teachers, the headmistress of an exclusive all-girls' school, a solicitor specialising in criminal law, a barrister, two CEOS, a prominent politician, an accountant, a librarian, one lady who is the president of her Ladies' Circle / Tangent group and who is also the captain of her local golf club, as well as several other professional ladies and women who have now retired, thus giving me the assurances with confidence that I must be doing something right by continuing to offer / provide my spanking services.
I have even been booked by a British Oscar-winning actress when I was chauffeur-driven to see her when she was staying at the Dorchester in London and a well-known news-reader in my time, so the ladies do have one common denominator, which is that they are often ladies in positions of "power" or have assertive qualities, but they also desire to fulfill their individual spanking needs and desires with a professional male dominant disciplinarian.
I am aware that I do not need to justify why I offer / provide my spanking services, but in the current climate of sexual correctness with respect towards women, I felt compelled to include this section.
Women always want men to have respect for them in all situations or lifestyle scenarios, but there are many women who also wish to relinquish control, thus allowing the male to dominate them as they are relishing their submissive, subservient role.
Many women see this as totally acceptable as long as all activities are consensual leaving the women with equal control, even though they are being submissive to the male dominance if this makes sense.
Ladies booking my massage / spanking services can always stop the session or leave at any time and they always have some control over their boundaries / limits / safety and when a woman is ready to be spanked, disciplined or dominated, then she will always give me the signals that she is ready placing her absolute trust in me, so in this respect (pun intended!!) the ladies booking my spanking services always have a say in how they wish to be dominated, even if they are completely submitting to my control, will and dominant nature during the spanking session.
All my select services are completely consensual and as long as women feel safe and secure to explore / fulfil their innermost spanking needs, desires and fantasies with me with consensual informed consent, then I shall continue to provide a very discreet, confidential, professional spanking service for ladies and my discerning female clientele.
I still continue to be booked by many new ladies as well as my regular female clients who are seeking to book my professional spanking services on a regular basis and I remain as busy as ever.
Your Legal Consent
I always request that all my female clients give me full permission and prior legal consent to give a spanking and an administration of corporal punishment spanking discipline within all personal pre-arranged boundaries, limits and comfort zones by signing a legal consent form before you are to be spanked and before I give a spanking and administer corporal punishment discipline.
You can view the details and form if you visit the Consent link within the main menu / header section.
I apologise in advance if this section of my website seems so clinical, but I regret that I will be unable to provide my spanking services if you are unwilling to read and then subsequently sign the legal consent form, thus giving me your full permission to go ahead and give you a non-sexual spanking with the formal administration of corporal punishment spanking discipline or I give you an erotic sensual spanking of a sexual nature and all I require is your signature without you supplying any other personal details just to keep everything legal, professional and above board between us.
Mature Lady Required to Administer Corporal Punishment Spanking Discipline
This is my own private spanking personal advert profile seeking a mature lady to administer corporal punishment spanking discipline and this section of my spanking website is in fact my own private personal request or personal advert to find a mature lady to administer corporal punishment or to perhaps correspond with me regarding discipline to exchange viewpoints, thoughts and ideas regarding corporal punishment if unable to meet in person.
As I am a male dominant disciplinarian master who provides professional spanking services and administrations of corporal punishment for women, coupled with the fact that I am usually and mainly dominant with regard to adult spanking related activites, this private advert profile request may come as a surprise to some ladies perusing my website, however I shall endeavour to explain why I am seeking a mature lady to administer regular spankings and traditional corporal punishment spanking discipline or even erotic sensual spanking discipline if you contimue read through this particular private profile.
You can read about the locations that I am able to travel to and visit within my main website.
I am not able to invite you to my own personal home or accommodate the administrations of corporal punishment spanking discipline at my own location, so this means that if you are interested, then I would have to arrange to visit you at your own location whilst keeping our private arrangement of spanking very dicreet, confidential, secret, safe and secure.
I am unable to accommodate or invite you to visit me at my own personal location, so I would have to visit you at your own home or we could perhaps arrange to meet in a hotel that is mutually convenient for both of us.
I would also be quite open to email exchanges if you are unable to meet me in person or live some distance away from my own location in England UK or even if you are based overseas and live in another country.
I am not what you might call a "switch" in the true sense of the word or term relating to adult spanking activities, but I do have a deep interest and fascination regarding mature women who administer or who have in fact administered corporal punishment spanking discipline in a very traditional manner and formal scholastic or domestic setting.
I do explain about my own experiences / instances of receiving corporal punishment in more comprehensive detail as well as my early interest in spanking discipline within the section below.
I am in fact mainly and usually dominant in both everyday life and with regard to my own administration of corporal punishment spanking discipline as opposed to being what you might call submissive in any way, but if you read the section below regarding my own expereinces, the details will give more insight into my own personal fascination with with mature ladies and the connection with spanking.
Please note that I am I am NOT seeking a professional mistress, pro-domme, pro lifestyle domme, dominatrix or a mistress / lady who wears leather, PVC and / or latex.
I am just seeking a smart, intelligent, well-dressed mature woman with traditional, old-fashioned values from everyday life who has an interest in corporal punishment spanking discipline.
I am seeking a mature lady who might be able to administer authentic formal, traditional administrations of corporal punishment spanking discipline.
I am just seeking a lady who has an interest, intrigue and fascination in any aspect of corporal punishment who would like to discuss and also administer spanking discipline in a private setting with the administration of corporal punishment always remaining within both our own personal boundaries, limits and comfort zones.
I am more than happy if you remain fully clothed and only wish to administer corporal punishment when I am fully clothed too with us both wearing suitable attire.
You may also wish to only administer spanking over the bare bottom / buttocks without my own full nudity.
If there is to be any erotic sensual spanking discipline between us, then we can discuss the sexual bountdaries and any aspect of nudity in more detail when we make initial contact with each other and I am more than happy to respect any boundaries, limits and personal comfort zones that you may have or wish to discuss with me.
You will read more details about my own boundaries that I have with my submissive female clients and the fact that I always respect their own boundaries, limits and comfort zones without any deviation.
This type of corporal punishment spanking discipline would be administered as a form of therapeutic spanking, spanking therapy and / or a tradtional "six of the best" type of punishment discipline.
It may also be interesting to explore spanking fantasy roleplay or to explore the eroticism of spanking discipline with erotic sensual spankings and administrations of corporal punishment.
I am NOT seeking a mature female in connection with my professional spanking services and I am NOT seeking a mature female for any still photographs or videos.
I am NOT seeking a mature lady for any commercial reasons and this would be a very discreet, private, secret, confidential arrangement between us both.
The reason that I am seeking a mature lady who is interested in the authentic administration of corporal punishment and strict spanking discipline is for a private request and for a private, personal project that I have in mind.
As with my professional spanking services for women and my discerning female clients, I give my absolute assurances of my professionalism, discretion, confidentiality, secrecy, safety and security as all times.
If you are a mature lady and you are intrigued by this requirement, then please contact me directly in strict confidence and I will then eleborate and explain in more comprehensive detail.
You are most welcome to make initial contact with me via text or email communication to express your interest in my personal request, but I would always prefer to speak on the phone as opposed to email exchanges or text message exchanges to ascertain that I am in actually contact with a genuine female.
I am totally "non-scene" so to speak and I do NOT attend organised spanking parties, spanking clubs or take part in any other similar spanking scenarios.
My own genuine true & real, private, personal experiences of receiving corporal punishment spanking discipline administered by mature ladies
I am often asked by ladies who make contact with me or by women who book my spanking services about my own interest in corporal punishment spanking discipline.
Although I am mainly dominant and I am a professional male disciplinarian who administers corporal punishment spanking discipline services, I did grow up in an age when the administration of corporal punishment spanking discipline was the "norm" in both the domestic home and at school.
I am not all all naturally submissive in any way, but if you read on, then my interest in corporal punishment and spanking discipline from a very early age will become clear and apparent.
If you read this section, you might even think that I am submissive with regard to spanking, but you will also derive that I had no choice but to go along with receiving the discipline when it was administered and I alway felt that my own experience of spankings were never gratuituous or abusive in any way whatsoever and in fact, corporal punishment was always very firm, but fair being very fairly administered and I always considered my own experiences to be appropriate and even lovingly or carefully administered with a true duty of care.
I have never once felt that my own natural dominance or dominant nature came from a deep-rooted psychological need to somehow "get back" at the ladies who amdinisttered corporal punishment in my formative years and I just seem to be naturally dominant, but also having a fascination or even fetish kink about being spanked and disciplined by mature women who like to administer corporal punishment as fantasy role-play or even as a sense of duty to maintain discipline.
My own interest and background with spanking stems from as far back as I can remember coming into consciousness and I find this psychological aspect fascinating as my own physical experience of actually receiving corporal punishment and spankings myself began later in my formative years.
I had always been aware of corporal punishment being administered in schools and then reading about it in fictional books / stories especially those composed by Enid Blyton in children's books or even how spanking was depicted and made reference to in comics.
I just remember being absolutely fascinated, intrigued, thrilled, "turned on" and even aroused with all these references to discipline in literature, although I was never, ever spanked at home by my parents.
I have often heard the same similar story from ladies who have made contact with me over the years who have also had the same subliminal thoughts about the administration of corporal punishment spanking discipline in their subconscious mind.
Although I am mainly dominant and was never, ever spanked at home, I did receive whackings, spankings and thrashings from a female family member / relative from between the age of 7 until my mid-teens.
I was also on the receiving end of corporal punishment which was administered by the headmistress and another female member of staff when I was at school between the age of 11 and 15.
I will not go into too much detail regarding my own experience of bending over to receive corporal punishment, but I will share some information to provide some enlightenment.
I must state for the record that my own experiences of receiving spanking discipline and formal administrations of corporal punishment were always very firm, but fair and well-deserved as I was and still am very naughty, cheeky and rebellious.
The family member was my great-aunt who was a lovely lady with strong Christian beliefs, traditional values and a true believer in the administration of corporal punishment for naughty boys or girls.
I am an only child so when my wanted some time alone to themselves or wanted to go on holiday, I would stay with her for a day or even a week.
I was quite naughty and cheeky with her so I was given fair warning that she would administer spanking discipline or if I was very naughty, a formal administration of corporal punishment.
I was spanked over her lap with firm hand-spankings, slippered over her lap with sound slipperings.
She would sometimes spank me over the bare bottom and she always whacked my bare bottom with her slipper.
She did once instruct me to bend over with my hands on my knees before her first slippering with six of the best, but after she had administered the first three whacks of her slipper I kept moving, so she stopped the spanking and gave the final three strokes with me bending over the side of her armchair to be slippered.
When I was older, I would have to bend over her arm chair in her lounge, she also sent me to wait in her bedroom and instruct me to bend over the side of her bed to wait in anticipation as she told me that she would follow me upstairs in a few minutes to discipline me.
I would hear her coming up the stairs and then enter her room as I lay bending over side of the bed waiting for her to administer corporal punishment with six spanks of her punishment slipper over my clothed or bare bottom depending on how naughty I had been.
I later realised that she had reserved a "special" slipper to use for corporal punishment which was kept in her drawer and which she only used to administer six of the best whacks in the privacy of her bedroom day or evening.
When I was in my mid-teens she would then send me to her reading room / study at the top of her large Victorian house where she would follow me up a few minutes later as a waited in anticipation for her to enter the room.
She would shut the door and I would have to bend over her chair for the slipper or cane where I would be caned or slippered with six of the best which was always administered over the bottom leaving my buttocks very red and sore afterwards after the caning and slipper spanking.
I did always deserve a good spanking, walloping, whacking, thrashing, beating with her slipper or getting the cane from her and it was always kept very private and a secret between us as she nor I ever told my parents about her spankings and it always remained a private punishment.
We always enjoyed such an intelligent, fair and respectful relationship and although her punishments were painful administered with firm hand-spanking or whacks with implements, I always felt that corporal punishment was administered in a very loving, professional way and there was never any animosity between us after the administration of corporal punishment.
Another familial spanking experience in a domestic setting happened with another great-aunt after I had gone to stay with her for a week when there was no one else available to look after me when I was in my mid-teens.
I think she must have known about my other spankings and administrations of corporal punishment if she had discussed my discipline and naughty, cheeky behaviour with her sister when I went to stay with her.
My other great-aunt was a Christian lady with very traditional values and views on life.
She lived on her own and we always enjoyed a fun relationship together when I saw her or occasionally stayed with her.
I was being rather cheeky with her one evening as we both sat in her lounge and I think that there had been a culmination of naughty cheekiness during this particular stay with her leading up to that one evening.
She kept her patience, but I could see that I might have pushed her too far with my insolence, so she then told me that it was about time that she taught me a lesson that I would not forget and that she was going to administer corrective corporal punishment.
She then sent me to my room telling me to change into my pyjamas as she was worried that I would not feel her whacks if she spanked me over my jeans.
She told me that she would be up in a few minutes to discipline me and that I should go to my room immediately to change and then she instructed me to go into her own private bedroom after changing and to wait for her whilst bending over the side of her bed.
The ritual had begun and I did so with the adrenaline coursing through my body as I changed into my pyjamas, then silently waited for her in her own room whilst bending over the side of the bed.
I could hear her footsteps coming up the stairs and watched as she entered the room and go to her wardrobe to take out her slipper, then she stood behind me holding her slipper ready to administer corporal punishment.
She informed me that she was going to spank me with her slipper and that she would administer six firm strokes / whacks with a good, sound slippering.
I was already wondering how hard she might spank or how firm her strokes would be given over my pyjama bottoms when she then told me that she would administer six of the best with the first three strokes given over my covered bottom and the final three to be administered across my bare buttocks.
She instructed me to prepare myself for punishment and to keep facing towards the front.
She was standing behind me when she gave the first three whacks and then she sat down beside me as I was bending over the bed to then slowly pull / take down my PJ bottoms to expose my bottom for last three whacks.
The punishment continued as she administered the final three whacks over my bare bottom and then told me that she was now satisfied that I had been disciplined and punished for my cheek and naughty behaviour with her.
She then stated that my bottom cheeks were very red and that I could stay in position for a few minutes to recover from her spanking, before saying that I could then go to the bathroom if I needed to use a sponge for soothing my bottom, then I had to go to my room for the rest of the evening.
She told me I could now expect an administration of corporal punishment again if I misbehaved again with her and that she might consider an administration of the cane with a caning in her office, but I was never caned by her in the end and only disciplined with her slipper when she gave a prolonged spanking with as many as twenty strokes over the clothed and bare buttocks on one other occasion.
I did attend a small, private, independent primary school between the ages of 7 to 11 and when I was ten years old I was told by my form mistress who kept me behind to see her privately after a morning class that the headmaster wanted to see me about my naughty, cheeky behavior after school and that she was to take me there in person at the last break time of the day.
This was the first time that I was going to receive discipline and being sent to see the headmaster.
I was feeling quite nervous when the other pupils had left and I went over to see her at her desk.
She then stood up and we both walked to the headmaster's private study.
She told me that he might administer corporal punishment and that I should prepare myself to be whacked.
We had heard stories about some of the boys being caned and rumors of canings being administered in his private study, but the pupils were uncertain about the actual facts or events and it seemed to be quite taboo at the time.
As we approached his study, I nervously wondered what might happen in the next few minutes.
To my complete surprise, the school secretary was also waiting outside his office and we all went together, but the most amazing surprise of all was to see the headmaster's wife sitting behind the desk waiting for us.
One other interesting factor is that the headmaster had two very attractive, pretty daughters aged about 14 and 16 at the time and both girls were also hovering around outside his office as I went in with my form-mistress and the secretary.
The boys had always been in awe of the headmaster's wife and she was a very attractive, lovely lady with a pleasing personality.
Even at that young age, I still found her to be quite a fascinating, mature, elegant lady.
She did not actually teach at the school and I do not remember her being addressed as the "headmistress", but she was always there most days as a charming presence in an administrative capacity or sometimes giving talks in morning assemblies.
The door was closed and remember feeling both nervous and confused as I was not expecting to see the headmaster's wife instead of the headmaster.
She then told us that the headmaster had been called away on another matter and that she was to administer corporal punishment.
The adrenaline was really coursing through my body at this point and I could hardly believe that this was about to happen with this very attractive lady who I had held in awe about to administer strict discipline.
She then confirmed that she was to going to discipline me with my form-mistress and the secretary staying there to witness the punishment.
I had often wondered about being caned and if she was going to cane me, then it would be my very first experience of receiving corporal punishment, but she went over to the cupboard by the side of the desk and took out a slipper, so I then knew that my punishment was going to be a slippering and that she was going to slipper me.
She instructed me to take off my blazer and put it on the desk and then she came round the side of the desk and told me to go over to the arm-chair in the corner of the study.
She followed me there with the other two ladies standing together by the desk.
I was then told to bend over the side of the armchair and to prepare myself for six whacks of the slipper and she then asked the secretary to record the punishment in the school punishment book as six of the best administered with the slipper.
I then waited as she delivered the first whack which was spanked hard over my buttocks and then she administered five more firm whacks.
As the school was situated in an old Victorian house, the study was oak-paneled which meant that the sound of slipper spanking and thrashing my bottom echoed and I was quite mindful that her two daughters would be able to hear each spank of her slipper as it thrashed over my aching buttocks.
When she had administered her final stroke, I stood up and faced all three ladies with both the school secretary and my form-mistress giving me a sympathetic smile as I was dismissed with the headmaster's wife telling me to behave in the future.
This was my only spanking and experience of corporal punishment at primary school and as I left her study, her two daughters who had been standing outside the door giggled telling me that they had heard each whack and that I must have been a very naughty boy to deserve a good whacking from their mother.
I also received corporal punishment at secondary school which was administered by the headmistress in her private study and once administered by the deputy headmistress when the headmistress was unavailable.
I was sent for three slipperings and I was caned twice over the buttocks.
I attended a small, independent, mixed, co-ed school and all my teachers or members of staff were female.
It was quite easy for a female teacher to send a naughty boy or girl to the headmistress to be privately disciplined in her office / study.
I was first sent by my history teacher after being very rude and cheeky to her, so the headmistress administered four whacks of the slipper as I bend over her chair.
My great-aunt would use a domestic, leather-soled slipper for spanking, but although people make reference to getting the slipper at school, it was actually a rubber-soled plimsoll which was used to spank the bottom.
The school secretary would sit at her desk which was adjacent to the headmistress's oak-panelled office / study and I would have to tell her that I had been sent there to see the headmistress for corporal punishment which was always embarrassing and especially as I was always quite dominant, but having no choice or say in the matter on these occasions.
The secretary was a mature lady and a similar age to the headmistress, so she would then make an internal phone call to the office to see if the headmistress was free and to tell her that a pupil had been sent to see her for an administration of corporal punishment.
On this occasion, she administered six of the best in private and the secretary would have heard each and every whack as I left her study clutching / rubbing my sore bottom as she would give me a knowing, sympathetic smile.
I was net taken to the study by a studious sixth-form girl who I had been very cheeky to and she told me that she was taking me to see the headmistress and that she was going to ask her to administer corporal punishment.
As we walked together to her office she told me that I need to learn some respect and that although she knew that an administration of corporal punishment would be very painful, it would teach me a lesson that I would not forget.
When we had both entered her study, I was shocked when the headmistress asked the sixth-former to stay and witness the whacking and I and to bend over for six of the best as she watched me receive my discipline.
My third spanking with her slipper was very interesting as I discover quite a young, attractive secretary working that day as a temp and I was embarrassed admitting that I had been sent for corporal punishment. It was even more embarrassing as I had to wait the headmistress's study with her sitting at her nearby desk as the headmistress was with someone.
I was sitting in silence until I could hear the familiar sound of the slipper spanking over the bottom through the door and after I had heard the administration of three whacks, a girl from the year above me came out after she had been slippered.
The secretary then phoned and I was duly summoned into study to receive my own thrashing with six of the best whacks knowing that the young secretary would hear each whack over my bottom.
I later had two canings and if a pupil was caned I found out that there had to be another teacher present to legally witness to the punishment and the secretary would be required to be present to both witness and record the administration of corporal punishment in the school punishment book.
I was sent to see the headmistress expecting another six whacks of the slipper, but the secretary this time told me to follow her into the office and as I did and to my horror, I saw one of the form mistresses also waiting in her study.
The other teacher was a very attractive, mature lady who did not actually teach any of my subjects, but I did know who she was of course from seeing her around the school and at assembly.
I must admit that I have always been in awe of my attractive, mature headmistress before and after receiving corporal punishment, but I had been in even more awe of the other lady teacher having admired her from afar.
I was told that as I had been slippered on three previous punishments, I was not going to get the cane as discipline and that the other teacher and secretary where there to witness as being caned was considered a more formal or sever punishment.
I wondered how much the caning would hurt more that the slipper as I bent over her chair and I was given six of the best which was even more fascinating having been witnessed by two other mature women.
To add to the intrigue, one of my teachers was stood outside the office as I was dismissed after being whacked and she was talking to a girl two years below me.
She tuned to face me and told me that she had been wondering who was in the office being caned and then enquired with empathy / sympathy if it had been a painful experience as she and the girl had heard my caning being administered.
The interesting twist in this account is that a few months later, the teacher had asked me privately if I would talk to her class of all female students who all privately attended her reading class including the same young girl that had been standing with her the day of my first caning and the subject they were discussing was corporal punishment, so I remember telling the teacher and eight girls about all my private experiences of receiving the discipline including those with my great-aunt.
I have also been told by several women who have booked my own spanking services that they remember female teachers debating and raising the subject of corporal punishment in their own time at school in front of boys and girls with one mature teacher of religious studies even reading account of factual birchings to her class and discussing being birched or a birching as well as spankings with the slipper or being caned.
Although I had been receiving discipline from my great-aunt before attending senior secondary school, I was still naturally nervous, yet intrigued by the formality and ritual surrounding traditional discipline administered at school.
I actually remember staying with my great-aunt after my very first caning at school and going straight to her home afterwards as I was caned at the end of the school day when everyone had gone home and telling her that I had my first caning over the bottom. I also remember that she seemed very interested in this fact and that she asked me to describe in detail how the caning had been administered, it was shortly after this experience that she began to use the cane for corporal punishment when I was particularly naughty.
It does seem that there are many women who are not only interested in receiving corporal punishment spanking discipline, but there are also many ladies who are also interested in the spanking and discipline of naughty boys too.
Corporal punishment was usually reserved for boys and male pupils when it was allowed to be administered in school and as I recall, it was banned in state school in 1989 and then later banned in private schools in 1995 and I have had many women who have booked my services or who have made contact with me to enquire about my services tell me that as they are of a certain age, that they have indeed been disciplined whilst at school by a male or female teacher as well as women telling me that they had be quite interested in the discipline of naughty boys and fascinated by witnessing corporal punishment being administered, listen to corporal punishment outside the head's study / office or by hearing boys discuss and talk about their punishments.
I remember a girl who I was very attracted to at school and who was two years above my own class standing outside the headmistress's office and being there as I came out of her study after my final caning which added to the intrigue.
I will always remember one memorable and very formal administration of corporal punishment which was actually administered by another elderly, mature lady in my formative years.
The lady who administered the punishment was a neighbour of my great-aunt and who lived in the house next door.
My great-aunt did have a long garden where I would play, but on thtis occasion I was kicking a tennis ball around her courtyard which was adjacent to her neighbours home.
There was a dividing wall with a wooden fence between the two houses and I manged to accidently kick the ball over the fence and heard a window smash.
I climbed up on the wall to see if anyone seemed to have heard the smash or if anyone was there at the scene of my crime, but after realising that my misdemeanor seemed to be going unoticed, I went over the wall to retrieve and wnet back into my great-aunt's home thinking that I have "got way" with it.
However, my feeling of well-being combined with apathy was to be short-lived and as I was sitting in my bedroom, I heard the front door bell ring.
I listened at the top of the stairs, but as it was a fairly large house, I could nolt distinguish the voices speaking or conversation.
I was then called down and summoned into the living-room to face my great-aunt and another quite mature lady who I must admit was very slim, tall and attractive for her age as I was only aged 16 at the time.
It transpired that the other lady wasthe neighbour and she had watched everything from her bedroom window including me kick the ball over the fence and me climbing over the wall to retrieve the ball.
I was silent and duly awaited my fate.
There were no raised voices from either lady and in fact both my great-aunt and headmistress never, ever shouted and always spoke in calm voice during the administration of corporal punishment when spanking was administered in a very firm, but fair manner and I always felt that I had deserved my spankings whenever they were given by either lady and I never, ever considered my discipline to be unfair, unjust, inappropriate or even abusive as this type of discipline was considered and deemed to be quite fair and normal when I was growing up.
The other lady was introduced as Patricia and she asked how I intended to pay for the damage which of course being only 16 at the time was not going to be an option, so my great-aunt turned to Patricia and asked her if there might be another alternative to having to pay for the window asking if she could pay for the damage herself to make some amends to the situation.
To my amazement, Patricia then stated that there was no need to pay for the window if another alternative punishment was given instead and she explained that she had been an ex-teacher and firm believer in the use of corporal punishment either sending pupils to the head for spankings or administering corporal punishment herself.
She also stated that if I had been in her own charge, that she would have given me a sound spanking or a more formal administration of corporal punishment with a slipper or cane for my misbehaviour that day.
My great-aunt agreed with her and she told Patricia that she did indeed use corporal punishment to discipline me and she had given spankings, slippering and a few canings when I had been naughty, but also stated that she now only used a slipper or the cane as opposed to hand spankings to correct me.
My great-aunt told Patricia that she would usually administer a whacking and take me to her room or office at the top of the house to thrash my bottom with ther other lady being asked to witness me being caned or slippered, however my great-aunt had hurt her wrist a few days earlier and she felt that her own punishment would not be effective and that Patricia might think that she was "going easy" on me.
Patricia said that she understood and the other option would be for her to administer corporal punishment with the slipper or cane in my great-aunts home with her permission / consent, but the problem was that my great-aunt was due to meet with her Bridge group later that morning and had to leave shortly.
So the decision was made that I would go over to see Patricia in the privacy of her own home in the next twenty minuted whilst she had time to prepare her own private room for the administration of corporal punishment.
My great-aunt was asked if she would like to witness the punishment, but she had no time to do so before having to leave for her Bridge group and class.
My great-aunt seemed totally happy that I would receive a very fair spanking from Patricia and sanctioned the discipline / punishment.
Patricia informed her that she would have her female friend who was staying with her for a few days witness the punishment, so I waited very nervously with anticipation until my great-aunt who was called Mary to go out.
I had about ten minutes alone in the house to contemplate my punishment wondering if it would be administered in the same style as my headmistress or great-aunt Mary.
I had been told by Patricia to change into my long school-trousers or something similar before going to her home to receive the spanking as she had stated to my great-aunt that the punishment would not be as affective be given over a pair of jeans.
As I changed, the feeling of adrenaline combined with anticipation and trepidation overcame me.
I left my great-aunt's home and walked to Patricia's home to knock on her door, then her friend opened the door and summoned me inside.
She told me that she was to witness Patricia giving me the whacks and that Patricia was waiting for us both in her private room / study.
I followed her up the stairs and the slience in the house was almost tangible, we both went into the study and Patricia shut the door.
Her friend stood to one side of an armchair and I was informed by Patricia that I was receive six of the best whacks with three strokes of the slipper and three spanks of her cane.
I was to be slippered and caned with corporal punishment which would be a sound slippering and caning over the clothed buttocks.
I was instructed to bend over a the punishment was duly administered across my bottom and it was fascinating to be punished and to receive such a formal, traditional administration of strict corporal punishment from another elegant, sophisticated, well-spoken mature lady aside from my aunt as well as being also witnessed by another elderly women in the same room.
I was then dismissed and Patricia walked with me to her front door telling me to behave myself in future or she may have to spank me again.
Another twist to the factual story and events is that I did become friends with Patrica after her administration of corporal punishment and I was in fact spanked, disciplined and punished by her in later years upto the age of 18 in private on several more occasions unknown to my great-Aunt Mary when I would ever feel the need to receive corporal punishment and even hand-spanking over my bare-bottom, but this is very private and another story which I have chosen not to share.
Another interesting session of discipline with my great-aunt was administered by her when I was staying with her and I had been quite cheeky and possibly a little too rude with a mature, elegantly dressed lady who was waiting next to me in a queue at one of the local shops.
I did not think much of this incident until a few hours later there was a ring at the door and to my amazement, the lady from the shop queue was standing in the doorway with my great-aunt opening the door to her.
It transpired that they were friends, she told Mary about my rudeness and cheekiness to her, so my great-aunt offered to appease and placate the situation by asking her friend if she would like me to receive corporal punishment.
Her friend repled that would be acceptable in the circumstances and then Mary asked her if she would like to witness the administration of discipline.
I was sent to my great-aunt's private room and after what seemed like an eternity of waiting, but probably only about two minutes had elapsed before both ladies followed me upstairs.
Once inside the room the door was closed and I was intructed by my great-aunt to bend over her arm-chair in the corner of her room for six firm, hard whacks / strokes of the slipper all witnessed by the other mature lady and I was was soundly slippered with a very traditional "school-type" six of the best and the other lady told my great-aunt that she was satisfied that I had received corporal punishment administered in a formal manner and that the whacks had been given in the same way that a headmistress would have administered strict discipline.
I was then told by my great-aunt that if I was ever rude to her friend again that she would administer a caning and that I would be caned in her room in the same manner with her friend witnessing the punishment.
Then to my absolute amazement, her friend stated that she would also administer corporal punishment herself if I was ever cheeky with her again or if my great-aunt was not available or unable to do so which really fascinated me at this time.
So sure enough, a few weeks later I saw the window of opportunity presented itself and knowing that my great-aunt had a bout of flu, I seized the opportunity to be punished by her friend who was called Jane with a random act of spontaneity.
I saw her at one of the local shops standing in the aisle, so I summoned up the courage to walk up to her and I pulled a face sticking out my tongue in a very daring, cheeky act of defiance to her.
I walked off and went back to my great-aunt's house waiting for the inevitable to happen.
The telephone then rang and I realised that it had been Jane calling to speak with my great-aunt, I did hear the full extent of the phone call, but it ended with my great-aunt inviting Jane over to her house.
After twenty minutes or so, I heard the door-bell ring and Jane was invited into the house.
I was then called downstairs from my room and my great-aunt who was streaming with cold told me that as I had not learned my lesson and had been cheeky to Jane again, that I could expect to receive corporal punishment, but that she was in no fit state to administer my discipline.
Jane who knew that my great-aunt had the flu then told my great-aunt that she had brought her own slipper with her and she opned her handbag and took it out.
Jane also remembered that my great-aunt had threatened to give me the cane if I was ever cheeky with her again and my great-aunt told her that if she was going to also administer a caning, then she kept her cane in the wardrobe in her private bedroom.
Jane then asked if there was another suitable room or space to administer my spanking as she was uncertain if she should give me the spanking in my great-anut's own personal room and my great-aunt replied that she could use her own private bedroom to administer the whacks as before.
As I was wearing a pair of jeans, Jane observed that my great-aunt had slippered me wearing my long school trousers with her previous punishment and that I might not feel the true effects of her discipline wearing jeans, so my great-aunt instructed me to go and put on my pyjama bottoms without keeping on my underwear and to then to come downstairs again.
When I returned, Jane asked my great-aunt if she was going to also come upstairs to her room to witness the punishment, but my great-aunt replied that she was feeling unwell wanting to stay seated in her favourite armchair in the loung and that she was happy for Jane to take me upstairs on her own to administer the spanking, so Jane then told me to go upstairs and she immediately followed behind me telling me that I was going to be disciplined in a firm, formal and traditional manner.
She shut the door and then to my surprise, she told me that she would start with a good, sound spanking, so she then sat on the edge of the bed and instructed me to bend over her lap to be spanked.
After she had spanked my buttocks with her hand, she then gave me a slippering and as I was squirming slightly over her lap, I could feel my pyjama trousers coming down exposing my bare bottom with the momentum of her spanks, whacks and punishment, so some of her spanks and strokes of the sliper were actually "accidently" administer over my naked buttocks, but my genitalia was always covered at the front.
After this discipline, she then instructed me to stand up and as I did so, I also pulled up my trousers to cover my bottom hoping that I had not leaked any pre-cum with any traces of semen or that there was any accidential emmission of my spunk.
I was then told by Jane to bend over the side of the armchair for three whacks of her slipper and then three stokes of the cane which was one of the most the most amazing slippering and caning sessions that I had ever experienced at the hands of a lovely, stunning mature lady in her disciplinry mode.
After I had been slippered and caned by her, we retuned downstairs and Jane told my great-aunt that she was satisfied that I had now received a good spanking session and strict discipline with administered corporal punishment.
Jane then gave me a knowing smile which I shall never forget and left the house.
Although the discipline had been totally sanctioned and appropriate, I have always wondered what Jane got out of the experience herself or any of the other mature ladies that administered my own personal discipline which was always appropriately given in very caring, loving manner with a duty-of-care in "loving" circumstances with none of the ladies ever shouting or raising their voices keeping very cool, calm and collected at all times.
Most of my discipline has been administered by mature, elderly ladies when I was younger and in my formative years, so I have never had the chance opportunity to ask any of them in the years that followed as they are no longer with us.
My discipline was always very secretive and private between myself and the mature ladies which was so very intriguing even at a young age, but I must stress that all my spankings were very appropriate and perhasp I was not always the innocent party as I sometimes physically and psychologically provoked / pushed each lady into administering corporal punishment and spanking discipline on a sub-conscious, subliminal level to achieve my own ends with arousal.
I have been offering / providing a professional spanking service for women since 2004, but in truth, I had been meeting women of all ages who wanted to receive non-sexual corporal punishment spanking discipline and / or erotic sensual sexual spankings since I was around the age of 23 having met them via private adverts placed in the newspaper or online.
I was always very lucky to have met girlfriends in my teens up the age of circa 23 who were actually interested in different aspects of corporal punishment and spanking, so I did used to spank several girlfriends froma young age in my life, but I would never, ever allow a girlfriend to administer corporal punishment as my only interest in ever receiving corporal punishment spanking discipline would be from mature, older, elegant, sophisticated, well-spoken ladies and never from younger ladies or an actual girlfriend.
One young lady who is an ex-public school girl booked to visit her for massage at her home in SW London in circa 2018 and after perusing my website, she decided thatt she would like to experience a bare bottom spanking.
We discussed spanking discipline in schools and she thought that is was from a bygone Victorian era that ended in the 1900's, however many younger women who make contact with me have heard of corporal punishment and spankings when speaking with their parents or grand-parents.
I remember a time before the internet and when everying is so freely available online, that I secretly ordered a spanking magazine by mail-order and when it arrived, I had the most intense masturbation sessions culminating in explosive orgasmic ejaculations of spunk after reading the fictional spanking stories and to this day I much prefer to read factual accounts of real-life discipline than reading fictional spanking stories always shooting much more semen than usual enjoying the intensity of the magical moment.
I think that it is quite a popular mis-conception that men think women prefer reading about erotic porn as opposed to watching it as I know for a fact that many women do watch porn on their own or at the request of their male partners.
Many women perusing my own massage and spanking websites also admit that they all enjoy watching my massage / spanking videos.
Although, I must admit that I do not sit there watching my own videos as much as some might think and I often rely on my memory of the sessions.
I would probably prefer reading about such things as opposed to watching them and those in the know do acknowledge that sexual fantasy thoughts begin in the mind and evolve in the huma psyche.
I am sure that some women and even some men who are viisting my website would not believe that aforementioned spanking accounts actualy took place and I absolutely assure my readers that they did.
I once met a hypnotherapist / psychologist called Jenny who was probably aged in her early thirties around 2007 or 2008 when she made contact with me via my own spanking website and who was very interested in my corporal punishment spanking services for women.
She did bend over my lap for a few bare bottom spankings, but when we ended up in bed after one late night out we both awoke in the morning and she quizzed me about receiving my own spankings and as I shared more and more information with her, she entered into a "role-play" scenario with me as the six-form girl who had taken me to see the headmistress and I remember being SO incredibly aroused / turned on as she sucked and stroked me as I was talking for at least twenty minutes before I had the most amazing climax with her.
The next account still surprises me and one I will always remember for a lifetime.
I had been spanked with the slipper at school and I had been sent to see the headmistress during the school day, however the secretary had told me that the headmistress was not going to be free or available to administer my punishment until the very end of the school day.
That afternoon we had had a swimming session and unfortunately as we were messing about getting dressed / changed, my underwear had become soaked with water from the showers, so I had to just wear my long school trousers without wearing any underwear underneath.
This then meant that the administration of six whacks was virtually spanked over my bare bottom as the grey flannel trousers were thin and did not provide much protection over the bottom.
It just so happened that although I was actually staying at my parent's home, they had gone away for a few days and I was being looked after by a distant female relative who was probably in her mid-fifties when I was 15.
When I arrived home, I immediately went upstairs and undressed in my room, I then went to the bathroom to inspect the damage and to look at my very red, sore bottom which I bathed in cold water.
When I went into the lounge to sit with her, I was probably becoming quite uncomfortable sitting on my spanked bottom and moving or fidgeting.
She then asked if I was OK and I admitted to her that I had been slippered just before returning home, so I lived quite close to the school, the punishment was still fresh and only recently administered.
We then openly discussed how I had been punished and looking back on this one-off moment, I do think that she was also very intrigued with the spanking herself as she asked me so many questions.
I was still feeling sore when I went to bed that evening and just as I had changed into my pyjamas in the privacy of my own bedroom, she knocked at the door and asked if she could come in and speak with me.
She asked if my bottom was still sore and told me that she was a doctor which I did not know or realise as she was quite a distant relative.
She was a very attractive, slim lady with large breasts and to my surprise she was only wearing her night-dress covered with her dressing gown / robe.
She came into my room and shut the door behind her asking me if my bottom was still painful.
I answered yes and she told me that she had some aloe vera gel which she used as a soothing ointment on her own skin and wondered if it might soothe my own bare bottom.
She said that she could leave it there for me or would I like her to inspect my bottom and apply the lotion herself.
I was stiill amazed that this scenario was unfolding and I just naturally replied that it might be easier if she helped me.
She sat on the edge of my bed and asked me to come over to her then turn around.
She then lowered my pyjama bottoms telling me that my bottom did look very sore and she would apply the lotion to help soothe.
As soon as she started to massage my bare buttocks with her soothing lotion, I became fully aroused, turned on and erect.
I remember turning 45 degrees so she could still massage the buttocks, but see my exposed long powerful erection too.
She asked if it was helping soothe my bottom and I just gasped yes, telling her it felt much better.
"I can see you are having a certain reaction and shall I continue to massage your bottom?"
"Yes please do and it is really, really helping!"
Within seconds I ejaculated so much spunk with an explosive ejaculation of hot sperm and to my amazement, I realised that I had splattered her robe in several spurts of spunk and that my sperm was dripping down her top half.
"Please do not worry or feel any embarrassment as I am a doctor with many years of experience and I realise that your ejaculation of spunk was just a natural release and reaction to me stroking your spanked bottom, so we will just keep this a secret between us and your semen will just wash out of my clothing"
I was amazed and thrilled that she had used the word "spunk" which had always been a buzz word for me and still is.
I was also pleasantly shocked, amazed, surprised and secretly thrilled that this event had even happened in the first place.
I know what some of the mature ladies were thinking at the time or after the actual events when I spoke with them in hindsight, but it is also a mystery what some of the other ladies were thinking in the aforementioned scenarios.
I always seemed to have had a fascination regarding corporal punishment from a very early age, despite the fact that I was never spanked at home and I sometimes wonder if the thought about receiving spankings had stayed in my subliminal subconscious mind after reading about it in books or literature and possibly seeing scenes in television or film at an early stage if my life. so I shall leave this for the psychologists and psychosexual therapists to work this one out.
I am not necessarily a believer in past lives or past-life regression, but I do sometimes wonder about it with my own connection to corporal punishment as I had never received it up to the time of my first session of corporal punishment at school, but I had often thought about it up to that point in time.
I am actually a member of MENSA the high intelligence organisation, but I did need some extra help with mathematics at one point in my teens, so my mother arranged for me to have some private tuition from a maths tutor in her own home.
We I first met her I was astonished as she was totally not what I was expecting at all and far from being an old spinster and frumpy maths teacher, she was and probably still is a very attractive, stunning, yet mature lady and I found her to be a very vivacious, pretty and sexy lady.
We met several times and I will always remember her for having a great personality along with pretty looks and a stunning figure.
I once went to see her for some private maths tuition after being caned by my headmistress at the very end of the school day and as I was feeling quite sore, she asked if I had hurt myself or if I was in some pain or discomfort, to which I replied that I had been given a caning that afternoon in school.
She was very sympathetic and we stopped the lesson to discuss the punishment and spanking, so I do always remember being very inquisitive and interested asking me quite a few questions about how it had been administered and how I had felt before, during and after the whacking.
We also discussed more details about corporal punishment and spanking discipline when she told me that she was quite a believer in the administration of corporal punishment as discipline and had sent several pupils to be disciplined at her own school if they had misbehaved with her or had spanked her own child for misbaving and I only wish that she had done the same with me.
Looking back and reflecting upon this intriguing conversation, I do often wish that I had asked her to apply some lotion or even to have explored discipline with her as I felt that she had been interested in both administering and receiving corporal punishment, but I shall never know.
I also wish that she had perhaps administered a good spanking and six of the best with corporal punishment when I had been flirting with her or cheeky with her.
We also discussed corporal punishment on other occasions which I found quite fascinatiing and I sometimes wish that she had been there to comfort me after a spanking when soothing my bare bottom and perhaps giving me masturbation or even sucking me off to take my mind off the pain and discomfort of the whacks.
She once went on holiday and when she returned, she asked if I would like to see her holiday snaps (phototgraphs), so she showed me her pictures that were in a folder or cardboard pouch as photographs were hard-copy back in thoses days and had to be developed.
As she stared to show me the images, she suddenly stated that some were a bit "rude" remembering just in time before she took those particular the photographs out and that she would have to censor some of the images and that she could only show me a selection of her images.
Late during our hourly session of private tuition, her phone started to ring and she went out of the room to answer it and thinking that she might be away from the room for a few minutes, I thought that I would take a "sneak peak" at all the photographs that she had left in the pouch on her desk and to my amazement, the "rude" images that she had referred to had been taken of herself when she was sunbathing topless on the beach and to this day, I always fantasise about her stunning figure, sexy body and beautiful bare boobs as she had perfect breasts.
I was so tempted to stroke my cock, but thought that she might catch me masturbating when she returned and I now often think about what might have happened if she had returned to find me masturbating over her sexy images and would she have told me that it was fine and that she would help me continue my masturbation and self-pleasure by taking off her top and bra to then start stroking my long, hard, erect cock with her own hand until I ejaculated my spunk with spurts of sperm over her hand, arm and splattering her bare boobs with my hot semen.
I must admit that I have often fantasised about my private maths teacher always enjoying being with her during the tutorials and still fantasise about her to this very day, but I must also state for the record that she was always very professional and there was never anythin inappropriate during our private tuition lessons, so I guess that as she had left the room in a hurry to answer her telephone, she just forgot to take the photographs with her, but I still think that she had a personal interest in corporal punishment and spanking though after some of our very open, honest and candid conversations.
I do also think about one particular girlfriend who I dated between the ages of 16 to 18 and upon reflection and due to some of the conversations that we had at the time, it would seem that she also had quite an interest in corporal punishment, and I only ever gave her one playful spanking.
I only began to spank my girlfriends at the age of 18 and I have spanked quite a few girlfriends and lady friends in my private, personal life, but I would have really liked to have explored further with this one particular ex-girlfriend in the past.
I have often received "proper" and genuine, non-sexual massage therapy treatments over the years and some have been given as holistic therapeutic massage by female holistic therapists and some have been more relaxing full-body massage therapy treatments for pure relaxation.
I always remember booking a massage with an osteopath when I was 25 and the female therapist told me that she was 38 years of age at the time.
I arrived for my appointment booking one morning at her private home-based clinic and immediately found her to be a very attractive lady and we immediately developed an instant rapport with our initial communication.
After our initial greeting and going through the reasons why I was seeking massage, she then left me alone for a few minutes to undress and to prepare myself by lying face-down on her massage therapy table.
She then returned to begin my treatment and I was really enjoying her style of massage finding it to be very beneficial; and therapeutic.
She then began to give me what is known as a "cupping" massage over the tops of my thighs and buttocks which were covered with a towel during the first treatment which I found fascinating and slightly arousing, sensual combined with erotic.
Towards the end of the massage, she changed from giving a therapeutic massage to a more holistic, relaxing style of full-body massage.
We then continued to speak and develop a further rapport.
When I was dressed again, she asked if I would like to have a cup of tea with her which I agreed to and we sat chatting for twenty minutes or so.
It was just when I was preparing to leave after my first appointment with her that she told me that she imagined I could be a very cheeky, charming character and that I probably deserved a good spanking which completely surprised me and I left thinking about what she had said with the thoughts resonating in my mind.
I subsequently made another appointment with her and as we went through the same treatment as before, I kept thinking about her "cupping" style of massage which was using the side of the hands to go up and down in a rhythmic motion over certain parts of the body and quite often the bottom / buttocks.
When we were getting close to her doing this, I cheekily, yet tentatively and cautiously asked her if she would mind if we removed the towel that was covering my bottom area bearing in mind that she was a genuine, fully-qualified and respectable holistic therapist who did not give or offer any sexual forms of massage therapy.
She smiled and told me that my request to remove the towel would be fine and added that she would never usually do this with a male client, but felt that although we had only met once before, she trusted me and to keep my nudity during her massage a secret between us which of course I agreed to.
She began the cupping and I once again found it to be the most incredible, sensual experience, so I then had the courage to ask if she would use the palm of her hands over my bare bottom.
She stopped and smiled again telling me that this request would be more like a spanking, so I turned to look her in the eyes and replied that you did tell me that I perhaps deserved a good spanking when I left last time.
She told me that I was very cheeky and to turn round again facing down on the massage therapy couch / table.
I was not sure what she was going to do next, but then she started to give me a good spanking with the palm of her hand over my bare bottom which found to be just amazing, erotic and very sensual.
After a good minute of spanking with her hand over my bare bottom, she then stated that her hand was beginning to smart and thatt she had other massage appointments that day needing her hand to be functional, so she then asked me to just wait for her for a minute whilst she went out of the room.
She returned a few moments later holding a slipper and told me that she would prefer to administer the spanking using her slipper, so I was then slippered lying face down on her couch, after which I bent over the side of the couch as she continued to administer corporal punishment with a good, sound slippering.
We then became personal friends as well as continuing with massage on a professional level.
She would then very privately give me hand-relief after my massage / spanking sessions as we went along which was always a very private, discreet and confidential arrangement between us with her swearing me to secrecy.
I also administered several sessions of corporal punishment over her own bottom ranging from hand-spanking to discipline with implements.
I could barely believe this most amazing experience and we continued to meet with similar scenarios over the next few months until I moved out of her area.
It was made even more arousing and interesting as she was a very respectable lady as well as being a very professional holistic therapist, so this intriguing dynamic was made even more exciting and secret.
I also met another genuine female therapist when was in my 30's and she was 58 years of age at the time who always administered non-sexual corporal punishment spanking discipline and we discovered a mutual interest in spanking after my very first phone call with her and after another immediate rapport with a female therapist, I felt that I was able to be very open, candid and honest with her, so we spoke at length after my initial point of contact .
She told me that she would not be able to give any form of sexual massage, but agreed to give me a genuine, holistic therapeutic and relaxing massage therapy treatment after which she would then administer non-sexual, traditional corporal punishment with six of the best strokes / whacks using implements in a formal setting which I was more than happy with at the time.
I then used to see her on a regualar basis for a formal, traditional session of corporal punishment.
I always remember meeting another mature, very attractive mature female massage therapist about twenty years ago who was a very genuine, straight holistic therapist who also administered corporal punishment spanking discipline for me.
I must state that I have always had total respect for genuine therapists with observing personal / professional boundaries, limits and comfort zones, but I have just been very lucky and I have found it a thrill to also receive spankings from them to as well as other more intimate, private sexual fun.
I must stress and emphsise that I would NOT advocate asking and never advise or recommend ever asking a regular holistic female therapist or any other type of therapist to administer corporal punishment spanking discipline or erotic sensual spankings "out-of-the-blue" as it were as this would most likely cause offence, embarrassment making the situation uncomfortable and in my case, I have just been very fortunate, lucky and enterprising enough to have met similar kindred spirits who have perhaps had similar interests to my own or who have been interested or more amenable with understanding empathy and who have just happened to be professional holistic therapists and that I have had a great rapport and then subsequently a deeper friendship with such ladies in the past and present.
I must admit that I may have manipulated and engineered the situatation towards fantasy fulfillment, but in my case, all the therapists / ladies have all been very forthcoming in their own right and have all been totally at ease and completely comfortable with going a step further than they would ususally do with clients or with private exchange therapy swaps.
I have been very lucky to have met such wonderful mature ladies in my life over the years and there have been a few other women who have kindly administered traditional, non-sexual corporal punishment spanking discipline or erotic sensual sexual spanking discipline in my life over the years, but I thought that I would share my massage and spanking experiences.
I have SO many other experiences that I can share with ladies and I will tell more when we speak on the telephone as opposed to email exchanges.
I am sometimes asked by women if I had an erection during any of my own spankings when receiving corporal punishment or if I experienced an ejaculation of spunk or a release of semen with my sperm spurting out as I was being spanked and I did I stroke myself afterward with self-pleasure masturbation, so I will leave this you your imagination.
I have too much respect to just go ahead and ask a genuine female therapist to do this with me, but I have always seemed to have formed a "friendship" and good rapport with the therapists that I have been lucky enough to meet always keeping within personal and professional boundaries, limits and comfort zones and of course, it has always been a very private, discreet, confidential, secret arrangement between the two of us.
I have also exchanged spankings with a selection of my more mature female clients who have initially booked my own professional spanking services including an English teacher, a doctor, a lawyer, a magistrate, a counsellor / psychotherapist and even a reverend / academic which was a very interesting dynamic for me as well as several other ladies with varying vocations.
I was once booked to provide mobile, visiting massage for a mature, elderly lady aged in her 80's in the privacy of her own home and although I do offer a discount for ladies over the age of 65, she asked me if she could do anything for me in exchange for massage.
I thought about this when we spoke on the phone and it was then that I then brought up the subject of corporal punishment spanking discipline wth her.
I told her about my some of my own previous experiences asking her if she might be willing to administer non-sexual corporal punishment, so she then asked me to give her a call the next day as she wanted to think about the exchange request.
I duly called her the next morning and she told me that she would be prepared to administer corporal punishment with her slipper and a garden cane as well as a possible spanking over her lap in exchnage for my massage if she could first have a friend to witness the administration of discipline.
I could scarcely believe my luck at the prospect of being disciplined by her as well as having another mature lady witness the administration of corporal punishment.
I then made arrangements to meet her for a initial coffee and chat to enable us to get to know one another as well as also meeting her friend who would be there to witness the spankings.
I met them both for a coffee and a lovely chat after which we then agreed to meet again the next day.
I knoecked on her door and her frriend let me in and then took me upstairs where my clients was waiting in her own private reading room / office study.
She then administered six strokes of the slipper and six of the best whacks of her cane with her friend witnessing the administration of corporal punishment.
Her friend then asked if she should leave us alone for the massage and my client told her that would be fine.
We went to her bedroom and she gave me a good sound spanking with both her hand and slipper with me bending over her lap before she then undressed for me to give her a non-sexual, genuine, holistic therapeutic and relaxing massage therapy treatment.
I ended seeing her on a regular basis for the private arrangement with her friend witnessing the administration of corporal punishment for the first few spanking sessions and then on her own with the exchange arrangement for another few years afterwards.
I was also spanked, slippered and caned by her friend on one memorable occasion too when my client was unable to administer a spanking, slippering and caning as her hand / arm was hurting one day and it was interesting to be spanked, slippered and caned by another lady with my mature female client watching, supervising and advising her.
I did actually make another private arrangement with the other mature lady friend to receive corporal punishment too as my client eventually went to live with her immediate family to receive care as she grew older in years.
I did once engage in conversation with a mature Christian lady / Christian volunteer aged in her late 60's back in circa 2010 when she was giving out leaflets for her local church in a shopping centre in SW London.
I was admittedly quite intrigued and initially attracted by her looks and slim figure, so I stopped and we spoke for about 15 miniutes and she told me that if I ever wanted to speak with her in private, then I could have her own private, personal home number to call her.
I was also intrigued with her intellect and articulate, eleoquent conversation in combination with a her alluring, well-spoken and educated voice.
After a few days, I was really curious, so I then decided to call her and it was it that very first, initial telephone conversation that we began to discuss my interest in corporal punishment.
We then made arrangements to meet again at her own home as she lived alone and I went to see her the following day late one morning.
She invited me in and we sat in her lounge discussing various subjects which then culminated in us discussing various aspects of corporal punishment and spanking discipline in intimate detail witha very open and honest conversation.
She asked me about all my own personal experiences to date and she discussed her own ideas and personal, private thoughts regarding corporal punishment spanking discipline with me in complete confidence.
It was then that she asked if I still felt the need to receive discipline or had anyone at the time who was able to administer for me.
At this time, I was not involved in receiving any discipline from a mature lady and that in all honesty, I missed having a mature lady to see for corporal punishment, so she smiled and stated that if I would like her to administer corporal punishment in a very private setting within her own home, then she would perhaps be prepared to think about it and that I should call her again the following day.
I telephoned her the next morning and she told me that she had thought about the administration of discipline and she would be happy for me to go and see her on a regular basis to receive her administrations of corporal punishment.
We discussed the arrangement along with rules, boundaries, limits and comfort zones and in doing so, she stated that discipline was to be non-sexual and that she would prefer to to use the cane, which was fine with me as I did not wish to be caned or to bend over for a caning at that thatt particualr time in my life, but she would be happy to use the slipper and I was totally in agree ment with her administering a slippering and to go and see her to be slippered on a regular basis.
The first of her punishments was going to see her one mid-morning and we sat and had a coffee together before she then administered six whacks of her slipper with me bending over her armchair and then we sat down again to talk about my feelings about bending over to receive her discipline and the punishment.
My subsequent visits to see her lasted another four months and I would be invited to see her very two weeks which was just perfect and absolutely amazing at the time.
The scenario would be very similar to the first time, but she would sometimes instruct me to go up to her private study / reading room to administer corporal punishment with me bending over her chair or arm-chair as well as administering discipline in her lounge with the curtains drawn shut to maintain the privacy of the spankings.
As we went along to develop a deeper friendship with trust and a good rapport, the boundaries and limits did change somewhat and she would then also take me up to her private bedroom for bare-bottom spankings administered with her hand and her slipper which I shall always remember with fondness and I was equally attracted / fascinated with the formality of her discipline and administrations of non-sexual corporal punishment as well as her more intimate, erotic sensual spankings which would always result in an intense ejaculation of spunk.
Sometimes the privacy, secrecy and formal administration of spanking discipline combined with the ritual associated with traditional corporal punishment and the anticipation with adrenaline rush of being told that you are going to receive spanking discipline can be just as exciting as an erotic sensual spanking or the eroticism of spankings.
I must admit that I have always found the ritual, build-up and adrenaline rush associated associated with non-sexual traditional corporal punishment spanking discipline to be such an intense, powerful thrill and just as stimulating as an intimate, erotic, sensual, sexy, kinky spanking session and the physical administration of spanking and corporal punishment itself.
Looking back in reflection and reflecting upon my own recollections with fond memories, I often think that was deliberately, subliminanlly and sub-consciously naughty or cheeky on purpose to orchestrate and provoke the ladies in the my childhood to give me a good spanking and administration of corporal punishment, but I sometimes did not have a say in the matter and the discipline was actually given as a matter of fact.
I have also been told by many of the more mature women who book my professional spanking services that I administer very real, realistic, authentic administrations of corporal punishment and now you know why.
Spanking and being disciplined can begin the mind with a sublime, subliminal, subconscious, physiological thought pattern / process associated with excitement / anticipation coupled with the adrenaline endorphin rush release before, during and after the physical administration of corporal punishment for both men and women.
An Amazing True Coincidence
Believe it or not, I was booked by a lady in 2005 who had actually been employed as a secretary at my old school, but not when I was a pupil there and I could simply not believe it when she told me that she had worked there or when she told me about her own experiences of dealing with, listening to and witnessing corporal punishment spanking being administered during our initial telephone conversations before arranging to meet for her own spanking sessions.
The world is indeed a small place!!
I do if fact sometimes wonder if any of my ex-girlfriends, former teachers or any other ladies that have known me throughout my entire life from the past and present have ever visited and perused my website out of interest in connection with corporal punishment spanking discipline or erotic sensual spanking, only to discover that they recognise me and used to know me realising who I am.