My Current Status & Availability Update for 2026


I am NOT currently available to provide my services or to take any bookings at this particular point in time


I am NOT currently available to provide my services at this point in time due to some on-going circumstances and commitments in my private, personal family life.


If you are a lady who knows me personally as a friend, a former client who has booked my services in the past or you are a woman who has just discovered my website and who would like to make an initial enquiry or who has any questions about my spanking services for women, then please still feel free to make contact with me and I will then be able to respond to your email by return.


Due to my current circumstances, I would respectfully ask if you could please send me an email, a text message or a message via WhatsApp as opposed to calling me directly.


So NO direct telephone calls please at this particular point in time as I may not be able to take your call and to the speak or converse with any privacy.


I am able to exchange emails as opposed to text messages or WhatsApp messages regarding my services during this time, but I will only enter into correspondence after I have ascertained that you are indeed a genuine female who is interested in my services or who is intrigued about the select services that I am able offer and provide for women and who is not a male pretending to be a female as my professional services are for ladies only.


Genuine ladies, women and adult females are most welcome and invited to make contact with me to ask any questions about my professional adult spanking services for women whilst I am currently unavailable to take any appointment bookings in person and I will be more than happy to correspond with you preferably via email exchanges as opposed to text messages to share thoughts and ideas regarding my adult corporal punishment spanking discipline services for women.


In the meantime, ladies are most welcome and invited to make contact with me to ask any questions with new enquiries about my professional spanking services whilst I am temporarily and currently unavailable to provide my services in person and to take any appointment bookings and I will be more than happy to correspond with you preferably via email exchanges as opposed to text messages to share thoughts and ideas regarding any aspect of adult spanking and corporal punishment.


I will be able to answer some of your questions via email exchanges and communication preferably by email when I will be more than happy and able to exchange thoughts and ideas with genuine females without any obligation to book my services when I am available to take bookings again and I am aware that some ladies may be feeling shy, uncertain, apprehensive or naturally nervous with making initial contact with me so an exchange of messages may be a way forward to help get to know each other until I am able to offer and provide my services again in the forthcoming future.


If you are a genuine woman, then I will be able to correspond with you to answer your questions and exchange thoughts in more intimate detail, but only once I have established that you are indeed a genuine adult female and ascertained that you are a genuine woman and not an under-age female and especially NOT a male pretending to be a female or a man pretending to be a woman for whatever reason.


I am not sure how long I will be unavailable to provide my services, but it may possibly be some time before I am available again.


I will continue to keep visitors to my website updated and advised with regard to my availability and current circumstances in the forthcoming future.


Kind masterful regards.


Simon xx


My personal contact details can be found at the very base of this contact page, however I would respectfully request that you please read the following information before making contact with me


Important information to read before making contact with me


I would politely ask and respectfully request that any males visiting and perusing my website read the following sections please.


There are also sections to read regarding media enquiries and assurances for ladies enquiring about my services that come before my actual contact details as the base of this page.


An Important Notice for Any Men & Male Visitors to My Website


No male callers or male contact under any circumstances please. 


I do NOT provide my services for couples & no male contact includes booking me to provide my services for a female partner, even if the male partner does not with to be present to watch or booking my services on behalf of a female partner whilst the male partner watches in a voyeuristic capacity. 


I will NOT speak to any men or wish to be contacted by any males no matter what the reason. 


Please kindly respect and observe my wishes to avoid any misunderstanding or embarrassment.


No male contact please as I do NOT offer or provide my spanking services for men


I politely and respectfully request that I receive no communication, calls, texts or email contact from individual, single males under any circumstances please as I am totally straight and all my spanking services are for ladies only. 


I do not provide any of my corporal punishment spanking discipline services for men and I only offer and provide my spanking services for ladies, women and female clients without exception. 

 

No male contact still applies even if the male partner does not wish to be present for the spanking session, but who just wishes to speak or liaise with me to arrange the booking for the female partner.


No male contact also includes seeking my advice as a mentor or men seeking work opportunities with me or any other similar enquiries from males relating to my spanking services. 


You will note that I over repeat and re-emphasise the fact that I do not provide spanking for males, single men and couples, but I have to be so repetitive and over emphasise the point so many times just to get the message through as I am sometimes still contacted by men or by the male partner in a couple, which I find both annoying and unbelievable after all my repeated statements to the contrary.

 

I do NOT offer / provide my spanking services for anyone who is trans-gender & transsexual 


My apologies here, as I do understand with genuine empathy that any male who is trans-gender may view themselves as female, but I do not provide my spanking services for anyone who is trans-gender or pre-op / post-op transsexual.


I do NOT provide my spanking services for cross-dressers or transvestites


No male contact also includes men who are cross-dressers or transvestites.


I do NOT offer / provide my spanking services for couples or more specifically for the female partner within a couple relationship


I would like to make it clear from the outset that I do NOT offer / provide my spanking services for couples, or more specifically for the female partner within a couple relationship.


My general rule of not providing my spanking services for couples, the wife or female partner within a couple relationship applies even even if the male partner does not wish to be present for the spanking, but who just wishes to speak or liaise with me to arrange the booking for the female partner.


The rule of not providing my spanking services for couples, the wife or female partner within a couple relationship also applies if the male partner does not wish to participate and if he just wishes to watch me give the female partner a spanking with him remaining passive in a voyeuristic capacity in the same room space.


I do understand the sexual fantasy concept of a married couple or a couple in a relationship wishing to spice up / enhance their sex life by booking another male to spank and discipline the wife / female partner, however I do NOT offer or provide this particular select service for couples.


The female partner is most welcome to make contact with me herself to book my corporal punishment spanking discipline services and I assure the male partner that she will be safe and secure at all times with all my usual guarantees being applied during her time spent with me.


I am also willing to allow the administration of spanking to be filmed by the female partner for the male partner's private personal perusal and viewing as an additional option at no extra charge.


Media Enquiries


I am often asked if I will give television interviews, appear in television / film documentaries, interviews for mainstream radio shows or magazine interviews in connection with my professional spanking services for women and the answer is NO and I do NOT give any media interviews under any circumstances.


I like to be "hidden in plain sight" on the internet with my websites and when I am offering my varying vocational, select services to my very discerning female clientele.


Ladies booking my services always tell me that they do so in complete confidence with discretion and they would prefer me not be all over the media with appearances on sleazy, tacky television documentaries or giving magazine interviews with photo-shoots.


Some of my female clients are actually well-known in the media or in other corporate or social circles too, so it would not suit them to be seen booking my services if my image was all over social media or on television and magazines.


I never use social media platforms or websites and I only use my own respective websites to advertise my services which has always worked very well for me to date and to my advantage.


Having my photographs and videos online within my websites is one thing and perfectly acceptable to me, but appearing in dodgy documentaries or tacky magazines is unacceptable to me and my personal integrity.


I firmly believe that it would do my business more harm than good if I granted television and / or magazine interviews.


I am NOT a "media whore" where I feel that any exposure in the media is good publicity no matter what the programme is or where the interview is being given, which is often a complete conflict as many programmes or magazine interviews portraying men or women offering their varying vocational services tend to be vulgar, tacky and in very bad taste.


I have never read an interview or seen a television programme or documentary that has managed to achieve the right balance and they always seem to show the subject in question or the person being interviewed in a very unflattering light, thus making the subject sleazy or they portray the men or women involved as being cheap and tacky themselves.


I like to remain dignified and to preserve my dignity with using my own creative concepts, innovative ideals or inspirational ideas.


I also have an acting background having appeared in films or television commercials over the years and I am a voice-over artist, so I do not wish to confuse the issue with appearing in television or in the media in connection with my spanking services for women.


I do accept enquiries from female students, writers, researchers, therapists & academics with regard to research


I will however give my time for interviews to genuine female writers, students, writers and therapists who wish to know more about my work and professional spanking services for women for their own personal research, a thesis, essay or dissertations which is absolutely fine.


I am more than happy to discuss my services in more detail with female students, writers, researchers, therapists and academics free of charge with no price fee when offering consultations, advice and information in this context.


I am often contacted by female academics, authors, writers, therapists, life coach, psychologists, psychotherapists, counsellors, hypnotherapists, CBT therapists, NLP therapists, drama therapists in connection with drama therapy or play therapy, sex therapists, psycho-sexual therapists with regard to the private personal research, professional research or curiosity regarding erotic sensual spanking, corporal punishment spanking discipline, spanking therapy, human nature or sexual behaviour.


I am also regularly contacted by female students with regard to their studies, thesis or dissertations in connection with many different aspects of corporal punishment and spanking discipline


I am more than happy to discuss my spanking services with female students, writers, researchers, therapists and academics with regard to your research and quite content to do so free of charge, although I would have to charge you my usual price fee if you wanted to actually book my services.


My assurances for women before making contact with me


I fully appreciate and understand that you may be feeling naturally nervous, apprehensive or perhaps even just plain shy with your initial contact with me.


I absolutely assure you that there is nothing cheap, embarrassing, dangerous, seedy, sleazy or tacky about booking my services and the ladies who tend to book me are very discerning, respectable, upmarket, middle-class women with professional backgrounds / jobs who respect the fact that I offer and provide a very discreet, confidential, safe, secure, reliable, trustworthy, professional spanking service for all my female clients. 


I further reassure you that you are not alone in booking my professional services and that you are not alone in having fantasies about receiving authentic corporal punishment spanking discipline, domestic discipline, motivational spanking, spanking for accountability, therapeutic spanking, spanking therapy, mild BDSM and erotic sensual spanking services from a professional, male dominant disciplinarian, master, mentor, spanking therapist, spanking life coach and authority figure as I am regularly booked by many women just like yourself with the same thoughts, needs, cravings or fantasy desires.


It is always preferable or easier for me to speak on the phone to discuss my corporal punishment spanking discipline services in more intimate detail as opposed to text or email exchanges.


Of course you are always most welcome to send me an email, text or WhatsApp enquiry in the first instance, but if you do choose to contact me directly with a phone call, then this is your chance opportunity to find out more about me as a person and to ascertain more details / information about my select spanking services, thus helping to establish a mutual rapport and trust between us before you decide whether or not to proceed with arranging an appointment with me to book my spanking services.


I offer free telephone consultations when we are both mutually free to speak and you are most welcome to call me in person to speak on the phone as many times as you would like without feeling obliged to book me or having to commit yourself to an actual appointment.


If we do speak on the phone, then there is absolutely no pressure or obligation to book me and this is just your time to ask me any questions that you might have.


I absolutely assure you that all contact and any correspondence between us will remain completely confidential, discreet, professional and private between us, thus respecting and protecting your personal privacy at all times.


Despite my naughty nature when providing corporal punishment spanking discipline services for women, I am consummate professional at all times.


My professional spanking services are all about YOU and your own needs and NOT about me fulfilling my own needs or desires.


Your safety is paramount and your well-being and wellness is always assured / guaranteed at all times, so I will look after you, your well-being and your needs during your time with me.


It is important to me that I am always here to guide you and to help you fulfill your own needs or fantasy desires.


My spanking services are very bespoke and can be tailored to suit your own needs, desires and requests.


We will always discuss your own personal boundaries, comfort zones and limits before we meet for an actual appointment.


I am often told by women that I am very charming, charismatic, courteous, conscientious, understanding, patient, polite, professional, friendly, normal and totally approachable at all times when answering emails, text or WhatsApp messages and when speaking on the phone.


Assuring you of my best professional and personal attention at all times.

No Male Contact Please


No Male Contact Please Under Any Circumstances


I would ask that men please respect my personal wishes & professional expectations not to hear from any males & to NOT make contact with me regarding my professional spanking services for women whatever reason you may have


I would respectfully advise that any men who are contemplating making contact with me regarding my services please read the information within this contact page in full as the details will explain in more detail that my services are for women only and that I do NOT offer or provide my services for males or couples.


I do NOT expect to receive any form of contact from men no matter what the reason is for wanting to make contact with me nor do I want to hear a male voice at the end of a phone call with regard to any aspect of my professional spanking services for women.


No male contact also includes the male partner making an enquiry on behalf of the female partner even if he does not wish to be present for the appointment booking or even if he just wishes to watch in a voyeuristic capacity.


I do NOT offer or provide my spanking services for males nor do I wish or expect to receive any form of contact from men, no matter what your enquiry may be in relation to my spanking services for women.


I wish to make it absolutely clear that my spanking services are for ladies and female clients only.


I reiterate to make it absolutely clear that I do NOT offer or provide my spanking services for couples, even if the male partner just wishes to book a spanking session for the female partner without him being present or just wishes to watch the female partner being spanked & disciplined in passive, voyeuristic capacity.


I do NOT offer any training or mentoring for men wishing to provide similar services.


I am NOT able to offer any work to males. 


I am NOT seeking any males to work with me.


I am NOT able to offer or give any advice to men hoping to work in the same sector as myself.


My Contact Details


No Male Contact Please Under Any Circumstances


If you are a genuine female who is interested in my adult spanking services and you are going to message / text, call me directly or send me an email, then could I please ask you to let me know which service you are interested in and the reason that I make this request is that I have several different varying vocational websites promoting each different service I am able to offer and provide, so as I use the same telephone number for each separate website, then letting me know in the first instance helps me to ascertain which service you are seeking with your initial enquiry.


I am always very charming, courteous, polite, professional, friendly, normal and totally approachable at all times when answering your emails or text and Whatsapp messages and when speaking with you in person on the telephone.


I can be more dominant, masterful and strict with you when in character during the actual spanking session and the more formal administration of corporal punishment spanking discipline or any pre-arranged role-play sessions and of course I can be more playful and sexy during erotic sensual spankings, but otherwise I am always very charming, polite, friendly and respectful in my everyday life


Please note that I do not respond to or answer telephone calls from private withheld numbers




07885 439071               




bluespirit14@hotmail.com               




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