An email that seems to encapsulate the thoughts of most women seeking my spanking services
"Dear Sir, I discovered your informative website after trying to gain a better understanding of my inner feelings and desire to receive the very spanking services that you provide.
Because of my initial inhibitions coupled with the embarrassment in discussing this matter with close friends, I began searching for more insight into corporal punishment discipline then almost immediately I happened across your website after typing in spanking discipline services for ladies and spanking therapy services for women.
Researching this topic can be a challenge because of the many degrading sites, but it appears that you offer spanking discipline with other genuine therapeutic services in conjunction with providing holistic massage therapies, which is so reassuring for me enabling me to feel safe, secure and confident in making first contact with you, especially as I am only seeking non-sexual, clothed corporal punishment spanking as a form of discipline.
It was also comforting to understand that there are so many other women just like myself with the same, similar desires and thoughts who also seek corporal punishment spanking discipline, therapeutic spankings, spanking therapy with spanking as a form of therapy, therapeutic and / or holistic healing or even women who are seeking erotic sensual spankings with administrations of erotic corporal punishment.
After reading your website I now feel there is nothing abnormal about my own thoughts and in addition, your professional response to my initial enquiry helped to validate your professionalism as a professional male disciplinarian.
It is so refreshing and reassuring to read that you are able to separate the different styles of spanking that you offer and provide as well as give constant reassurances that you keep everything within personal pain thresholds, limits, comfort zones and boundaries of each and every individual client.
I have thought very carefully about how I would make contact with you in my initial enquiry and there have been several drafts of this email to date before I have had the courage to press send, so here goes...
I am confidant that if I booked you to administer a non-sexual, authentic administration of corporal punishment spanking discipline that you would adhere to this aspect at all times without any deviation as I can sense and trust that you are indeed a genuine, professional disciplinarian who has total respect for women in general as well as all your female clients coupled with the fact that you clearly state that you offer a very bespoke, trustworthy, professional spanking service which can be tailored to suit the individual spanking needs of your clientele which is totally believable and true to me.
I can see that if a lady wished to remain clothed, partially clothed or semi-naked that you would respect this wish during her punishmant and spanking session.
I can also see that you clearly have a definitive divide between your administrations of non-sexual, traditional, formal corporal punishment and strict spanking sessions and you separate the erotic sensual spankings if a lady chooses to book you for a sexual spanking session.
This aspect of your professionalism is very clear to me when reading through your comprehensive website and which could only come through having a vast wealth of experience with women booking you to administer their spankings.
It is a key decisive factor for me that you mange to successfully compartmentalise each style of spanking discipline that you are able to offer and provide with anatural understanding of what women wnat with regard to corporal punishment.
I can also see from watching all your spanking videos that your separate the administrations of strict corporal punishment spanking discipline from your more erotic sensual spankings and you clearly know what you are doing and how far to go or not to go when giving your hard, firm, disciplinary spankings with firm, hard spankings or whacks of each implement with you giving six of the best to your clients.
I can see that you administer gentle erotic sensual spankings for those ladies who choose to receive and book you for this style of discipline and then you administer hard, firm whacks for those ladies in need of strict discipline or for women who are seeking corporal punishment as a therapeutic spanking as a form of therapy or spanking therapy.
I also think that you have a very intelligent, forthright approach to spanking and that you fully understand / realise that some women do literally want to be taken in hand to be forcefully bent over, held down with some force for a good sound spanking perhaps with some hair-pulling too.
Although I am very new to this, I am fairly sure that I will want you to give me a good sound spanking with your hand and a prolonged bare-bottom spanking with me bending over your lap / knee.
I will want to be held formly in place even thought I might wriggle, squirm, scream and protest or even cry as I look back behind me bending over your from masculine lap to watch your arm / hand being brought up and down spanking my bare aching buttocks until they are pink / rosy red or glowing with the heat of your whacks / spanks.
I have also imagined this same scenario with you using a slipper or leather paddle to spanking my bare bottom.
I may be sobbing or whimpering towards the end of your administration of firm spanking discipline being held in place by your strong arms, but I need this to happen.
You seem to realise and be aware with empathy that although some women may protest, but they secretly want to be dominated in a safe, secure setting knowing that they will be able to trust you not to go "too far" and they wish be treated "roughly" yet also treated with total respect for their own boundaries, personal pain threshold, safety and comfort zones.
This is all very appealing, intriguing and fascinating to me at the same time.
After all, there has to be some danger with an element of excitement in life and a spanking is supposed to hurt right??
But of course within reason, so I trust you to be firm but fair, hard / tough yet forgiving and rough yet gentle with me when I deserve or need it...
I am sure after watching your videos and reading through your website that I shall be very submissive / compliant and submit to your will and your dominant, masterful nature when being disciplined by you or if you hold me in place for a good, sound spanking...
I am yet uncertain if there will be any erotic feelings or any eroticism attached in connection with my own spankings as this is all very new to me, yet not the thought of receiving corporal punishment is most definitely NOT new in my thoughts or fantasies, so I am not sure about my own personal pain thresholds until my actual physical spanking is administered, we shall just have to see, but I would like you to test my pain threshold and still continue to spank me if I protest or struggle against you.
I have to confess that as I am seeking strict, firm discipline with the administration of corporal punishment, I was a little surprised with how "gentle" some of the spankings were in your erotic sensual spanking video section, but then I went on to read that all the ladies featured in your videos are actual clients and that those spanking in that section of your video sites were probably the very first time some of them had been spanked in their adult lives by a man, boyfriend or male disciplinarian.
I then also went on to read that you do administer strict discipline and that you do give very firm strict whacks for ladies who are perhaps more experienced or who just know that they need a firmer administration of corporal punishment, so I then watched those particular videos in the section that you cite as being for the women who are seeking hard spankings and this was certainly the type of discipline that I have always craved or thought about bending over to receive.
After reading through all your details and watching your videos, it would seem that you always have the "right" balance and that you seem very understanding and aware of everything that is happening for women when they book you for a spanking session.
I am sure that you will know when to be firm and when to be forgving and gentle with your clients.
You are so very open, honest and truthful about yourself as well as the honesty you portray in providing your spanking services which instills me with complete confidence that I am doing the right thing by making initial contact with you.
As I am only seeking a traditional administration of corporal punishment which I have always imagined being administered by an "authority figure" in a formal setting, I feel safe and secure enough to both make initial contact with you with a view to being "sent" or "referred" to you to be punished / receive my punishment in a formal setting. I know that you now only provide a mobile spanking service from reading through your website, so I understand that my punishment will not be given in an office or study. However, I am sure that we can re-create the authentic administration of corporal punishment if I am spanked / disciplined in a similar domestic setting.
After we have spoken on the telephone to discuss my discipline, I would then make a booking and arrange an appointment for you to visit me at my own personal home or I may book a hotel room / rented apartment that I feel would have the most appropriate domestic decor for my own spanking scenario.
I would then like you to be in "character" as a dominant disciplinarian / authority figure from the outset or moment I let you into my home / room to then tell me in no uncertain terms why I am to be punished and how you are going to discipline me with your administration of corporal punishment.
I get the impression that the women visiting your website, then subsequently reading about your spanking services including myself of course find you to be a very trustworthy, professional male disciplinarian. I know that I will be severely disciplined / thrashed with a good sound spanking, slippering, strapping, caning and possibly even a birching or flogging over the buttocks.
I would like to be spanked with your hand to warm me up so to speak in preparation for the use of implements, slippered (spanked with the slipper), paddled, strapped, caned and again possibly birched or flogged over my dress, skirt or slacks to begin with.
I then need strict discipline to be administered with me bending over with my skirt / dress stretch tightly over my buttocks to receive a sliipering, paddling, caning, birching and flogging.
I have had many thoughts about receiving formal discipline with the slipper, cane and birch to be soundly slippered, caned and birched.
I know that you will be in control and measure / mete out my punishment in a safe, well-measured manner with your own vast wealth of experience and judgement.
I then want you to spank me over my panties / underwear with a prolonged hand spanking, then to be slippered / paddled over my panties.
I know that you are in charge when intructing me to bend over to receive my spankings so my punishment is all up to you and I know that you will be guiding me through this entire experience, but I think that I would then want you to pull / take my panties dowm to then spank my bare exposed red sore bottom at this stage of the session and finsih with a bare bottom spanking.
Although I envisage the discipline to be administered in aformal or domestic setting, I have sometimes had fantasies about be sent to my bedroom by a paternal, family figure or again an authority figure to await my punishment.
He would then come up the stairs as I wait in anticipation with trepidation as I hear the footsteps approach.
I may have been told to just wait in my room or to prepare myself for the punishment by bending over the side / edge of the bed as he enters my room, shuts the door and spanks my bare bottom with his hand or slipper.
Or perhaps I am wearing my my nightie or pyjamas for his administration of corporal punishment and spanking discipline before he pulls dowm my pyjama bottoms or raises my nightdress to then spank / slipper my bare bottom.
I am then put / sent to bed with a very red, sore bottom feeling like a very naughty girl...
The more thought I put into this, the more I am feeling that there is nothing wrong with acting on something that helps make a person feel good about themselves.
I have fantasised many times about the aforementioned spanking scenarios and I now feel that the moment / time is right for me to act upon my spanking fantasy thoughts and feelings about bending over to be disciplined with an authentic administration of corporal punishment.
After visiting your website for past few months and being drawn back to your enticing site many times to peruse all your details in full along with watching your spanking videos too, I now feel that I have the right person or male disciplinarian to help me fulfil my own spanking needs after all this time of thinking about being disciplined by a mature man who knows what he is doing.
I shall await your reply with aniticipation and the adenalin is already coursing through my body with the same trepidation, yet excitment that I have described thus far knowing that I am so very close to receiving my own, very first session of spanking and corporal punishment with a mature man who is going to spank / punish me.
I need this and I most certainly want this to happen and just the thought of being spanked sends a such a shiver down my spine making me tingle also having knots in my stomach knowing that my fantasy thoughts about receiving discipline can now become a reality in my life.
I want you to now satisfy my powerful, overwhelming need / craving for being soundly spanked, disciplined and punished by a mature male disciplinarian.
I have finally summoned up the courage to make contact with you after reading through your site over the past few months and I have felt confident enough to now reach out and make contact with you to act upon my fantasies and real need to receive corporal punishment.
Even typing / using the words and terms such as "spanking" or "corporal punishment" as well as using other corrective terms to describe discipline is such a thrill for me.
I have cut and pasted this section of your Home Page which will give you an idea of what I mean.
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I have been fascinated by all aspects of corporal punishment spanking discipline or just spanking for as long as I can remember. Even the definition was powerful enough to make me squirm. I could not pick up the dictionary without looking it up, including all the attendant words such as beat, beating, beaten, birch, birching, birched, cane, caning, caned, corporal punishment, flog, flogging, flogged, lash, lashing, lashed, paddle, paddling, paddled, punish, punishment, punished, slipper, slippering, slippered, spank, spanking, spanked, strap, strapping, strapped, thrash, thrashing, thrashed, wallop, walloping, walloped, whack, whacking, whacked as well as other phrases such as being instructed to "bend over for discipline / punishment " "I am going to bend you over for a good, sound thrashing" "you are going to be to be disciplined" or "I am going to put you over my lap / knee for a good, sound spanking"
These words, phrases and spanking terms have had a special hold and power over me for as long as I can remember.
Even the word "punishment" or term "discipline" sends a shiver down my spine and arouses something deep within my psyche.
I have thought about erotic sensual spanking discipline, therapeutic styles of spanking punishments administered as therapy or for accountability and traditional administrations of corporal punishment spanking discipline from an authority figure ever since I care to remember, although in my mind, I never knew exactly why these powerful thoughts / emotions had such a hold over me..
I used to feel incomplete from a very young age, as though there was something really important missing from my life before receiving regular spanking discipline as an adult female, but I now feel whole and complete again on a new holistic level.
I imagine it must be liberating for the women who have been brave enough to act on their spanking fantasy desires in a safe, secure, professional setting, so I will most certainly be in contact with you again very soon to book an appointment to fulfil my own spanking needs."